I have been into a relationship for the past 3 years and we did have a lot of Ups n Downs in the due course of time. We have never been able to strike a balance in any aspect at all. Well I m a Hindu and She is a Christian and Older to me by 2 and a half years. But we both love each other so much. When I had initiated this relationship I never used to share much with her as I was scared that she would get me wrong cos what ever she had seen me doing was wrong and I strongly admit that I was wrong (Fr Eg : as in talking to girls and conversations do get out of the way!). Well after I got committed to her and getting to know her likes and dislikes I started changing slowly and gradually. Then too though she gave me the liberty to share any thing n everything I used to be afraid of what she would think of me and so on. But now I swear to God that I have changed and have been the way she loved me to be and yes I admit she has been a good Mentor helping me to differentiate good n bad. May be it was my adolescent behavior that made me go out of the way but Now I have turned into a more serious walk of life and still face the problem of her not believing me nor trusting what ever I say. She says she has not felt so no matter how much efforts I have taken to spend time with her. I love her so much and she knows that too but when ever we have a conversation or some thing when I share with a true note to it it ends up like “ U will be like this only U wont change” This statement really takes a great toll on me.. I get into a depressed mode cos I know that amount of efforts and struggle I m going thro to make this relationship happen. I had told my parents about our relationship but due to cultural religious customs my parents are against it giving me the reasons of Age and Religion as a barrier.I m trying my best to convince parents too.
My only wish is that this relationship should set sail smoothly and we must have a good life ahead. Seek your advice on how to go about this problem?
